Comments on: Dining Room Becomes A Play Room http://www.dinnersfromhell.com/2008/03/566/ A fun food blog with restaurant dining disaster stories Sun, 29 Jan 2012 05:47:59 +0000 hourly 1 By: waittron http://www.dinnersfromhell.com/2008/03/566/#comment-746 waittron Wed, 10 Feb 2010 03:53:04 +0000 http://getsometime.net/?p=566#comment-746 Most parents I know would flip out on anyone, especially the restaurant manager for daring to say anything about their precious, perfect children. People gets very defensive when you question their parenting skills. I once got chewed out by my manager for saying something to a family whose 3 year old was running around on a busy night. I was almost tripped by the kid while holding a sizzling hot skillet dinner. I could have severely burned the kid or myself. I asked the Dad (nicely) to please have his child sit down, I explained to the Dad that it wasn't safe for his kid or our staff. Well, Dad was furious. He yelled at my manager, how dare I tell him how to raise his kid, he is a paying customer, his kid can do whatever he wants, blah, blah. The manager told me not to ever say anything to anyone again about their kid. Do you think the Dad would of had a different reaction if the manager asked him to keep his kid seated? I think not. Most parents I know would flip out on anyone, especially the restaurant manager for daring to say anything about their precious, perfect children. People gets very defensive when you question their parenting skills. I once got chewed out by my manager for saying something to a family whose 3 year old was running around on a busy night. I was almost tripped by the kid while holding a sizzling hot skillet dinner. I could have severely burned the kid or myself. I asked the Dad (nicely) to please have his child sit down, I explained to the Dad that it wasn't safe for his kid or our staff. Well, Dad was furious. He yelled at my manager, how dare I tell him how to raise his kid, he is a paying customer, his kid can do whatever he wants, blah, blah. The manager told me not to ever say anything to anyone again about their kid. Do you think the Dad would of had a different reaction if the manager asked him to keep his kid seated? I think not.

]]> By: jennie w http://www.dinnersfromhell.com/2008/03/566/#comment-400 jennie w Mon, 17 Aug 2009 19:30:38 +0000 http://getsometime.net/?p=566#comment-400 ive been a server when parents let their lil spawn run allover i even had to spill boiling hot coffee on my self so the lil spawn didnt get burned ugh i got the scars to prove it. i got 2nd drgree burns from the coffee the owner made the spawns parents pay my bill at the clinic. hehehe it was a family run resturant and the ones who who let their spawn run lose talk about a surprise of that bill they came back to resturant and the owner told them that i got 2nd drgree burns cause of their lil damn brats running around and he told them if they didnt pay they would get sued . and the owner put up a sign on the door saying if u dont keep kids at the table and reasonably ouite that they will be charged triple what the bill would be and wouldnt be allowed back in the resturant ever. i miss the owner may he rest in peace he was a good man and stood up for his workers. he didnt give a shit who u were coming to the place if u had kids he would personally go to the tables and ask parents to keep kids at table and if off chance he wasnt there like on a errand and i was there we were given the right as servers to tel the patons that . ive been a server when parents let their lil spawn run allover i even had to spill boiling hot coffee on my self so the lil spawn didnt get burned ugh i got the scars to prove it. i got 2nd drgree burns from the coffee the owner made the spawns parents pay my bill at the clinic. hehehe it was a family run resturant and the ones who who let their spawn run lose talk about a surprise of that bill they came back to resturant and the owner told them that i got 2nd drgree burns cause of their lil damn brats running around and he told them if they didnt pay they would get sued . and the owner put up a sign on the door saying if u dont keep kids at the table and reasonably ouite that they will be charged triple what the bill would be and wouldnt be allowed back in the resturant ever. i miss the owner may he rest in peace he was a good man and stood up for his workers. he didnt give a shit who u were coming to the place if u had kids he would personally go to the tables and ask parents to keep kids at table and if off chance he wasnt there like on a errand and i was there we were given the right as servers to tel the patons that .

]]> By: Rob http://www.dinnersfromhell.com/2008/03/566/#comment-399 Rob Thu, 02 Apr 2009 21:36:27 +0000 http://getsometime.net/?p=566#comment-399 The place isn't a playground. That was a period. . Every business requires its own decorum. If you were at Chuck-E-Cheeze or McDonalds, fine. If you are at a restaurant where staff will wait on you, it requires something else. Pissing off 10 tables to please 1 isn't a good bet. The place isn't a playground.

That was a period. .

Every business requires its own decorum. If you were at Chuck-E-Cheeze or McDonalds, fine.

If you are at a restaurant where staff will wait on you, it requires something else.

Pissing off 10 tables to please 1 isn't a good bet.

]]> By: Dev http://www.dinnersfromhell.com/2008/03/566/#comment-398 Dev Mon, 23 Feb 2009 11:06:43 +0000 http://getsometime.net/?p=566#comment-398 Dear Ms. Higgins, In no way did I mean to imply that the server should be the one that speaks to the parents, which is why I stated that ultimately the responsibility was management's. I should have added that the server would relay the diner's concerns to management. You're absolutely right that it could affect one's tip. Also, it would carry more weight if it was management who spoke with them. I do believe though that restaurants need to address situations that can significantly diminish the dining experience of their customers. Patrons shouldn't have to pay their hard earned money for an unpleasant time. And it's in the restaurant's best interest to do what they can to help ensure that diners want to return. Dear Ms. Higgins,

In no way did I mean to imply that the server should be the one that speaks to the parents, which is why I stated that ultimately the responsibility was management's. I should have added that the server would relay the diner's concerns to management. You're absolutely right that it could affect one's tip. Also, it would carry more weight if it was management who spoke with them.

I do believe though that restaurants need to address situations that can significantly diminish the dining experience of their customers. Patrons shouldn't have to pay their hard earned money for an unpleasant time. And it's in the restaurant's best interest to do what they can to help ensure that diners want to return.

]]> By: Theresa Higgins http://www.dinnersfromhell.com/2008/03/566/#comment-397 Theresa Higgins Sun, 22 Feb 2009 23:04:14 +0000 http://getsometime.net/?p=566#comment-397 Dev, You forget that the waitstaff is working for tips from all the tables, not just the ones with impeccable social graces. It is not the responsibility of the waitstaff to say something to these irresponsible parents, that is for the management or a gently worded request to parents from the offended diners. The waitstaff is already dodging kids, cleaning spills and looking for dippy sauce as well as trying to make up for the disruptive atmosphere in the dining room. In today's "restaurant owes everyone something" atmosphere, a word from the server would probably be considered an insult to these precious gifts to society running around and yelling in the dining room. And that , of course, leads to some type of discount on the check or complimentary dessert, lessening the final total and the tip. A good customer shouldn't hold a restaurant completely responsible for some people's bad manners. Dev,

You forget that the waitstaff is working for tips from all the tables, not just the ones with impeccable social graces. It is not the responsibility of the waitstaff to say something to these irresponsible parents, that is for the management or a gently worded request to parents from the offended diners. The waitstaff is already dodging kids, cleaning spills and looking for dippy sauce as well as trying to make up for the disruptive atmosphere in the dining room.

In today's "restaurant owes everyone something" atmosphere, a word from the server would probably be considered an insult to these precious gifts to society running around and yelling in the dining room. And that , of course, leads to some type of discount on the check or complimentary dessert, lessening the final total and the tip. A good customer shouldn't hold a restaurant completely responsible for some people's bad manners.

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